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What Doctors Won’t Tell You About Bedroom Control
Discover natural fixes for PE and ED your doctor never mentioned.

Hello there, Modern Man.
If you’ve been searching for a real, lasting solution to erectile dysfunction (ED) that pills just don’t seem to solve, you’re not alone.
Maybe you’ve heard of the P-Shot or PRP therapy. Maybe you’re skeptical. And maybe, like many others, you just want clear answers from a professional you can trust.
This week’s issue breaks down one of the most talked-about regenerative therapies out there. You’ll learn what it is, how it works, whether it’s right for you, and how your everyday choices impact your results.
Let’s dive into a smarter, science-backed approach to reclaiming your performance and confidence, with your health at the center.
🩸 PRP 101 – What the P-Shot Really Is 🩸
The P-Shot uses Platelet-Rich Plasma, or PRP, which is taken directly from your own blood. This therapy is all about healing from within. No synthetic chemicals. No major surgery. Just your body doing what it was made to do, rebuild and restore.
So how does it work?
PRP is rich in growth factors. These are proteins that tell your body to repair, rebuild, and regenerate. By drawing your blood, spinning it down in a centrifuge, and separating out the PRP, a medical professional can inject that concentrated healing into the area that needs a boost.
Unlike pills that only address symptoms, PRP gets to the root cause of ED: poor blood flow and tissue damage. Most men with mild to moderate ED start seeing improvements within a few months, and results can last up to 2 years.
It is a safe, natural, and effective solution for many men, especially when done by experienced hands.
🔍 Fast Fact – Why It’s Not Just Hype 🔍
PRP therapy is not a gimmick or just another trendy fix. Here is why it is getting so much attention:
It uses your own cells, so there is no risk of allergic reactions or synthetic side effects.
It improves circulation, nerve sensitivity, and tissue strength.
It offers a regenerative approach rather than temporary masking of symptoms.
Most men report firmer, more sustainable results without daily medication.
And here is the real kicker, many men even see better response to medications like Cialis or Viagra after PRP, because the underlying health of the area improves.
📚 Backed by Research 📚
Let’s talk data. A clinical trial published in 2021 by Dr. Poulios studied 60 men with mild to moderate ED. The results were impressive:
70% experienced meaningful improvement for at least 6 months.
Their scores on the IIEF (International Index of Erectile Function) improved by an average of 3 points.
Results were seen at 1 month, 3 months, and 6 months post-treatment.
Now, not every study shows the same outcome. A 2023 study in Miami did not find the same level of improvement.
But this variation often comes down to differences in protocol, such as how much PRP was used, how it was processed, and who performed the procedure.
Bottom line? Technique matters. Experience matters. And not all PRP is created equal.
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✅ Are You a Good Candidate? ✅
Wondering if this is right for you? Here are the signs that you might benefit most from the P-Shot:
You have mild to moderate ED, especially from poor blood flow.
You’ve tried medications, but they didn’t do much for you.
You’re looking for something more long-term than pills.
You want a natural, non-surgical option that promotes actual healing.
You may need to consider other options if:
You’re currently undergoing cancer treatment.
You’re on strong blood thinners like Coumadin.
You have serious blood-clotting disorders.
If you're unsure, a consultation with a trained sexual health specialist can help you determine whether you’re a fit.
💡 The Real Talk on Results 💡
Here’s the truth no one tells you: the P-Shot works best when you work with it.
This is not a magic fix. But it can be a powerful part of your health transformation when combined with the right habits.
Here is what I tell my patients:
Keep using the pump daily after treatment
Add pelvic floor exercises (Kegels) for strength
Do a te*sticle massage to stimulate circulation
Get regular exercise to improve blood vessel health
Sleep well and manage your stress; both are crucial for hormone balance
Think of PRP as the reset button. But you still have to support the system with the right fuel and maintenance.
Let us talk about something almost every guy experiences at some point but rarely admits to: finishing too early. You know what I am talking about. It can be frustrating, embarrassing, and sometimes even relationship-shaking.
But here is the good news. It is not permanent. And more importantly, it is treatable without surgery or heavy medication.
🧠 Expert Insight – What You Were Never Told About PE 🧠
You might think premature release is just about getting too excited too quickly. But there is more going on beneath the surface. And most doctors are not talking about it.
There are two main types:
Lifelong PE - This starts from your very first experience.
Acquired PE - This develops after a period of normal timing.
The causes are not always clear, but here are the big ones:
High stress or anxiety
Over-sensitivity in nerve endings
Depression or low mood
Hormonal shifts
Medical side effects
Even early experiences that trained your body to react fast
If you have been beating yourself up over it, stop now. This is not about weakness or willpower. It is about body patterns and brain chemistry, both of which you can change with the right tools.
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💪 Exercise Tips That Help Delay the Finish Line 💪
Here is a little-known fact. There is a set of muscles in your pelvic floor that directly control when you release. When these muscles are strong and responsive, you gain better timing and control.
This is where Kegel exercises come in. Yes, they are not just for women.
Here is how to do them:
Tighten the same muscles you use to stop urine midstream
Hold that squeeze for five seconds
Relax for five seconds
Repeat ten times
Do three sets a day, morning, afternoon, and evening
In a few weeks, you will feel the difference. You will start to notice stronger control and even firmer performance. The best part? You can do them anywhere, and no one will know.
🧘🏻 The Mental Game You Must Win 🧘🏻
Performance anxiety is one of the most common reasons men release too soon. The moment your brain starts focusing on “don’t mess this up,” your body panics.
Instead, train your mind to stay calm and in control:
Use slow, deep belly breathing during intimate moments.
Focus your attention on your partner, not on your timing.
If you feel the peak coming, pause, breathe, and reset.
Remind yourself, this is not a test. It is a shared experience.
The more relaxed you are, the more control you gain. And yes, this is something you can train.
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💥 Myth Buster 💥
Let us clear up a few common myths.
Myth: You are just overly sensitive.
Truth: Sensitivity plays a role, but it is usually a combination of factors, including stress, muscle control, and early training.
Myth: You have to live with it.
Truth: PE is one of the most treatable issues men face.
Myth: Medication is the only way.
Truth: Most men improve dramatically through natural techniques, mindset shifts, and physical training.
Stop believing outdated advice. Start building a new approach.
🤫 Secret Little Hacks 🤫
Let us keep it real. You want quick, practical tools you can start using tonight. These techniques may seem simple, but they are incredibly effective when done consistently.
Try this lineup:
Use a thicker condom to reduce overstimulation and naturally slow your response
Self-stimulate before intimacy, ideally one to two hours beforehand, to reduce your peak sensitivity
Let your partner take the lead. When they are on top, you can pull back more easily when things speed up
Apply a numbing cream to reduce sensation. Use something like lidocaine, let it absorb, and always wash off before connection
Use a pump beforehand. It helps manage sensitivity and improve blood flow, which can extend your timing
Pick two of these and test them out. Many men find that these tips offer relief even before trying medication.
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✅ Your Weekly Action Plan ✅
If you want results, the best approach is to take small but consistent action. Here is your seven-day plan:
Day One to Three
Start doing Kegel exercises twice a day
Order a thicker condom and topical cream from your local pharmacy
Day Four to Five
Practice the start and stop method during solo sessions
Try the squeeze technique right before you reach your peak
Track how long you last and how well you recover
Day Six to Seven
Combine self-practice with breathing techniques
Use the thicker condom and numbing cream during partnered activity
Write down what worked best so you can refine next week’s approach
Consistency is what creates control. Make it a habit, not a one-time fix.
❓ Q&A of the Week ❓
Q: Why does this happen to me even when I try to stay calm?
A: Because your brain and body are wired to react a certain way, especially under stress. This is not about effort. It is about retraining your reflexes.
Q: Can this go away on its own?
A: Sometimes. But most often, it takes a mix of muscle training, mindset shifts, and consistent practice to make real progress.
Q: Do medications actually help?
A: They can. Certain antidepressants have shown results in delaying release. But they also come with side effects, and many men do better using natural methods first.
Q: Is this a mental problem or a physical one?
A: It is both. Your nervous system, muscle strength, and mindset all play a role. That is why the best results come from a multi-layered approach.
Q: How do I bring this up with my partner without feeling embarrassed?
A: Try being honest and calm. Let them know this is something you are working on, and you want to involve them in the process.
Disclaimer: The statements made here have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and represent the professional opinion(s) of the author. The purpose of this is not to act as a personal physician to any reader and is not meant to directly or indirectly diagnose disease, dispense medical advice, or prescribe the use of any products or services as treatment for sickness or disease. This information is for educational purposes only. You should always cooperate with a licensed health professional of your choice with the goal of creating optimal health. Please consult your physician prior to implementing any of the strategies mentioned in this or starting any diet, exercise, or health program, especially if you are pregnant or nursing. Any application or use of the information, resources, or recommendations contained here is at your own risk.
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